Mexico is widely regarded as home to some of the most desirable singles in the region. Mexican women, in particular, get a lot of hype with their ethereal beauty and infectious personalities. However, Mexican men have just as much to offer. If you are thinking of dating internationally, then you are in for a treat with these ones.
Here is more on what to expect when dating a Mexican guy and how to make it work once you have the attention of one.
What to expect when dating a Mexican man?
They are extremely passionate
When a Mexican guy sets his mind to something, he will not hold back on his efforts and intention to see it through. That is something you will get to enjoy in your relationship. Whether it is your sex life or pursuing you, he will be very passionate and intense, and it will be awesome.
They are very kind and loving
Mexican men, like all Latino men are also very caring. It has a lot to do with how they were brought up. The values of kindness and selflessness are instilled in them through their interactions with their families and communities. You will see it in how he always insists on helping you out and taking care of you.
They are funny
As women, there is probably nothing more attractive to us than a funny guy, and boy are Mexican men funny! There is just something about how those jokes come out in their heavy accents when they speak English that makes them so much funnier.
To get an idea of what kind of humor you can expect, look up the following Mexican comedians:
There will be a lot of homemade dinner dates prepared by him
Mexican guys love a good homecooked meal. So do not be too surprised if a lot of your romantic times are at your home or theirs. It isn’t him trying to be cheap and weaseling his way out of paying for a date. He wants to impress you with his cooking skills while spending time doing something fun.
They love to show off their women
Another great thing about dating Mexican men is that you will be treated like a real queen. He will want to show you off not only to his family and friends but to the whole world. It could be through blatant PDA or even an early introduction to those close to him. Who wouldn’t want such validation?
They are honest almost to a fault
Mexican guys are brutally honest.
He will not let you leave the house, looking like a clown to spare your feelings. He will not tiptoe around your character flaw to avoid conflict. He will say it as it is, and though it might hurt in some instances, it is crucial to understand that it comes from a good place.
They have a way with words
These guys are very romantic, and you will not only see it.
You will hear it. They love to reassure their partners of their love, and you will have a lot of compliments constantly thrown your way. The best part is how all these things sound with those sexy Spanish accents of theirs. Prepare to swoon, darling!
Their actions speak louder than their words
Yes, these guys have a way with words.
However, they are not all talk and no action. If a Mexican guy is genuinely into you, he will back up his sweet words with actions. Some of these include:
- Plans to introduce you to family and friends.
- Keeping his promises.
- Going out of his way to show you he cares.
- Planning back-to-back dates.
- Making efforts to get to know you, not just talk about himself.
They are very handsome
Finding a hot Mexican guy is not hard in a country full of Adonises. These men are typically tall, dark, and elegant, and they have the macho man confidence to match. Some great examples of the eye candy you can look forward to are:
- Diego Luna
- Gael Garcia
- Diego Boneta
- Aaron Diaz
- Rafael Amaya
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Learn how to cook
These men love to cook, but they also like to be cooked for. So you might want to pick up a Mexican recipe book as you pack for your trip down south. That way, you will get to his heart through the quickest possible route – his stomach.
Be ready to handle a little bit of spice
Dating a Mexican man, much like dating a Cuban man, means having to accept his culture. Mexican cuisine is a massive part of it and consists mainly of very hot and spicy dishes. If you want to score bonus points with him, you will have to learn how to fight through the pain, sweat, and tears and enjoy that food.
Respect the sacred game
Football is a huge deal for these guys. National, regional, and international leagues are followed religiously all over the country. If you are not already a super fan, you need to learn how to adapt and respect his passion for the game. Here are a few tips on how to do this:
- Show interest in the game by asking him to explain it to you.
- If you are not interested, let him watch it in peace.
- Plan dates and surprises around his love for football.
- Support his team.
Take a dance lesson or two
One of the main challenges you will face as a white woman dating a Mexican man is keeping up with your man on the dance floor. Whether it is a traditional salsa or modern fusion pop, learning how to dance will impress him. It will also make your dates a lot easier as most of them will involve dancing in one way or another.
It will help a lot if you are family-oriented
Mexican lovers, like Argentinian men, value their families, and a lot of them are interested in starting their own. To make the relationship work, you need to put effort into getting to know those who are near to his heart. You also should show enthusiasm at the prospect of starting your own family, especially if you have a strong enough connection that you see a future with him.
Let out your feisty side but show some submission
Mexican male gender roles put the guys at a point of authority in their society. However, as with most Latino cultures, Mexicans love their Mexican women feisty. To make it work, you must strike the perfect balance between being strong or independent-minded and being submissive to the macho male authority.
In short – Mexican guys are awesome! They are sexy, kind, fun, and intentional. Honestly, what more would you need from your man? The key to making it work if you are lucky enough to already have one in your sights is to respect him. Respect his manliness, respect his family, respect his views – it is indeed the quickest way into his heart.